What If It Wasn’t Trauma?  What If It Was Control

Introduction We’ve all heard it. “They hurt you because they were hurt.” It sounds compassionate. Like it could be true. But if you’ve lived with a coercive controller, if you’ve lost yourself trying to survive them, then you know that explanation doesn’t hold up. Because no matter how much compassion you gave… it never made …

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What is Coercive Control and Why It IS Child Abuse

Coercive control is abuse, even when there are no bruises.  For children, it’s not just confusing. It’s developmental and complex trauma. And yet, because it often doesn’t “look like abuse,” it gets ignored, especially by family court. In this blog, we’ll break down why coercive control is especially dangerous for children, how it operates in …

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